Grow Up Already!

There had been a previous notion to head this subject as Love, Friendship, and Financing Life. However, the three can be summed up in one title, namely Growing Up.

In a recent blog it was brought to my attention that people may want to change their lives for the better, but continue with the blatant affects of their negative actions. In life there are moments where one must take a look around and decide to continue on a flagrant path, or journey on a canvas of endless possibilities.

Two aspects in life's journeys:

In friendship we may feel overwhelmed with obligations to be there for one another. Regardless of the number of friends, or obligated relationships in friendship (or otherwise) we must resume the responsibility as a human being and be there as best as we can in each circumstance as reflected in the other parties actions toward ourselves. Notice, I mentioned as best we can as the key statement. Hopefully, as a friend one is aware of the ability of the other friend as well as aware of the apparent efforts.

As for ourselves, people in general tend to care too much about what we think about one another, therefore taking actions that we believe will make someone else notice. Or happy for that matter, when we are not happy with ourselves in who we have become as a direct result of the influences we allow ourselves to partake.

All in all, if there is anything we can do in our lives, it is to just be ourselves as best as we can. Adjustments can be made as we grow in love, friendship, and finances. If we are lucky enough to see these wonderful attributes of life.